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Comment on Is There Such a Thing as Sympathy Etiquette? by Shalonda

Shalonda — Thu, 02 Feb 2012 17:51:52 +0000

Funeral services I’ve attended mostly will celebrate the deceased life with soothing hymns and sometimes funny stories or memorable quotes from the person that make you smile and say “That’s him or her” I think celebrating someones life helps ease the sorrow their loved ones feel.

Comment on Sending Sympathy Cards From Management by Ami

Ami — Thu, 02 Feb 2012 16:42:26 +0000

I am also a manager and I found it best to order a variety pack of cards and keep them in my cabinet. This way, you are always prepared!

Comment on Is There Such a Thing as Sympathy Etiquette? by Anton J

Anton J — Wed, 01 Feb 2012 18:42:40 +0000

Well, I’m from Trinidad & Tobago, I’ve been to a lot of wakes even some where I did not know the deceased. At these wakes it’s nothing but a big party, we celebrate the person homegoing which means we firmly believe that physical death is not the end. We play cards, eat, drink, music and have a good time. The deceased is usually in one of the rooms in a ice coffin. I find that it eases the pain of loss. And so it is with different cultures to some it’s a loss and therefore they mourn, to others it’s a celebration of that loved one who’s gone (hopefully) to a better place.

Comment on Helping A Grieving Friend From Work Without Being Too Pushy by Shalonda

Shalonda — Tue, 31 Jan 2012 19:16:52 +0000

When someone loses a parent, best friend anyone very close the only thing that heals the loss is time. Your coworker will come around, keep the messages of encouragement & smiles coming each day it doesn’t cost a cent to do so but will mean so much.

Comment on Dealing With the Passing of a Disliked Co-Worker by Anton J

Anton J — Tue, 31 Jan 2012 14:07:58 +0000

I agree, because you do not feel sadness or the fact you won’t be missing that person should not make you feel guilty, there are always someone that’ll get on your nerves, most importantly is how you treat that person when they were in the land of the living. Move on.

Comment on Helping A Grieving Friend From Work Without Being Too Pushy by Anton J

Anton J — Wed, 25 Jan 2012 16:12:02 +0000

Sometimes the person has to work out his feelings himself, but I agree with caring Carol, a little note or card saying “you are here for him,” would be much appreciated, just don’t force the issue.

Comment on Helping A Grieving Friend From Work Without Being Too Pushy by Carissa

Carissa — Tue, 24 Jan 2012 21:48:23 +0000

I had a similar situation with one of my coworkers. I waited until she came around, then invited her to grab dinner and drinks after work one day. It worked out great, she got to vent and talk things out with me on a personal level. I suggest trying a one on one get together with Ron – you never know!

Comment on Sympathy Cards For A Stranger After A Tragedy by Anton J

Anton J — Fri, 20 Jan 2012 14:21:06 +0000

I think that is very kind and thoughtful to want to send a sympathy card to someone you only read or heard about in the news, this was a very tragic story. I can’t imagine the pain Mrs. Badger is suffering.

Comment on Sympathy Cards For A Stranger After A Tragedy by Lacey F.

Lacey F. — Thu, 19 Jan 2012 18:27:23 +0000

Reading this blog made me want to send out a note of sympathy as well. I am sure they would feel some sort of comfort even if they do not know us personally. I hope it makes a difference…

Comment on Sympathy Cards For The Passing Of My Best Friend’s Grandmother by Kim D

Kim D — Thu, 19 Jan 2012 15:16:40 +0000

I also agree with Chloe, When you receive cards in your time of need or loss, you really get a true feeling of who cares about you.